When the long hours are totally worth it...

Posted by: Viviana | Posted on: May 06, 2008 | Comments 7

The cost of something is the amount of life that you must exchange for it.

I've seen this quote before, but I saw it again this morning while standing in line to pay at my favorite country market. Just being in there puts me in a good mood, because the people who run it have a passion for what they are doing and it shows in every home-made item. And in the lovely quotes they put up on their white board by the cash register.

I've had jobs I loved and I worked a lot of hours at them. When I married, and when I later became a mother, the amount of life I was exchanging for a good job and a good paycheck somehow became too big a cost. I do a different type of work now. In a small way, I am helping to launch fwm. My role isn't the biggest one on the team but like everyone else here, what I do does matter.

I suppose here would be the place in the story where I happily report that I work less hours and have more time with my family. Well, I do. However, that doesn't mean there aren't some weeks that require more hours--there are. I'm happy to work them. Why? Didn't I leave that all behind? I'm happy to work those hours because we're building something here that matters and because this work fits perfectly into my life (I do a portion of it from a home office).

Carolyn and Jen have had big jobs and worked tons of hours, too. And now they have big jobs and work tons of hours. What's the difference? Fwm is theirs and they are building it with a passion and dedication that differs from other kinds of work.

You entrepreneurs know what this is--so tell us about it. Did it come as a surprise to you that you have had to work some unbelievable hours to build your business? Is the cost worth it to you?

Related tags: entrepreneurship, passion, time-management

7 people have responded so far. Add your comment below.
Working Girl said:
05.06.08 3:49 p.m.
That's a wonderful thought, Viviana. All we really have is time, and of that, all we really have is today. Hard to remember when we are fretting about the past or the future, or wanting to be somewhere other than where we are. So thanks for the reminder!
deb owen said:
05.06.08 4:24 p.m.
i work more hours now than ever. but it's completely different (and completely worth it). the difference? i hated my corporate job. i dreaded going in to work everyday. every hour seemed like an eternity. it was affecting my health, my relationships, everything. so, as i wrote last night on my blog, i decided to define what success means to me. and now, i'm doing work i love. so it doesn't feel like work. and the hours don't feel long at all. in fact, it's fun! our time is valuable. it is actually worth something. it's another form of currency. it's important to consider what you're trading your time for....it is for me anyway. all the best! deb
Rachel M. said:
05.06.08 7:47 p.m.
I relate to this article not as an entrepreneur but as someone who has worked as the first employee of my present job and has worked with a sense of shared ownership from the beginning. It’s hard to explain how I feel ownership for a business that is not mine but I’ve put in longer hours then any other employee and I’ve been rewarded by seeing the business grow and of course in personal compensation and position. After seven years, I’m starting a family and my boss has finally told me to take it easy. I don’t know what this means – I’ve worked long hours for so long that it’s second nature. I find myself seven months pregnant and still working long days. I have feeling this mindset is going to change very soon and I’m excited to open this new door in my life and find what matters at home.
Viviana said:
05.06.08 8:43 p.m.
@Rachel--it sounds like you have a good boss where you work. Great leadership can make all the difference, and it can make employees take ownership like nothing else. Does your boss have children? If so, he or she understands what a great new door this is in your life, and how utterly changing it will be.
Rachel M. said:
05.06.08 9:16 p.m.
Hi Viviana - yes he has 2 children and he has been very supportive of everyone in the office with children. I'm a big fan of counting job benefits that are not part of "compensation" and in my job there is flexibility in work hours to support family commitments which is going to quickly rise in value to me in the months/years to come.
Jane Chin said:
05.07.08 6 p.m.
I've never worked so hard in my life than when I was working for myself. I'm a real slave driver! (One of the reason why I did everyone a favor by not becoming a manager when I was an employee...) Seriously though... I worked harder because I really believed in what I was doing and I loved it. In a recent keynote address I gave, I said that when you are doing the thing(s) you love, you may feel physically exhausted at the end of the day, but emotionally and spiritually elated. That has been my hallmark of whether I'm on the right track of trading time and energy I have.
Patty said:
05.07.08 10:41 p.m.
This quote was very timely for me. Working in the real estate field in this challenging market had me second guessing my career choice recently. Then I was offered a dream marketing management job at an international software company. The visions of dollar signs were dancing in my head. My rusty front doors could finally be replaced, my leaky master bath could be remodeled... all these things that had been weighing heavily on my mind. But when it came time to sign the job offer, I got cold feet. The day before I spent the morning at my twin boys 4th grade classroom and it dawned on me that the boys would much rather have mom in their classroom than have new front doors. And I would rather be with them. I just couldn't give up my flexible schedule (i.e. life) for the dollars. I was so relieved after I told the software company that I would not be accepting the position. In the end I knew I made the right decision.
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