Working From Home: You Telecommuters Have It Made!

Posted by: Viviana | Posted on: April 08, 2008 | Comments 17

In my oft-mentioned past life as a M-F 9-5 corporate gal, I would occasionally glance up from my desk and notice that not everyone got up, got pretty, and drove off somewhere to spend the day awash in fluorescent light. Their lives always looked so nice.

I assumed it would reduce the daily workload. Now that a part of my work life is spent in a home office, nary a fluorescent bulb in sight (I’m pasty enough as it is, thank you) I see that in some ways, it merely shuffles the workload and blurs the lines. And…I like it.

My husband recently made the critical error of coming home, exhausted, wearing a quizzical what-did-you-do-today? look. I suppose it was in response to the undone dishes and multi-room havoc inflicted by an active kindergartener with drive, determination, and nothing but time. Had I tossed out self control and answered the unspoken question, it would have been:

I got up at 5 and worked uninterrupted until 7 (bliss), went back to bed until 7:45 (even better), drove my son to school, got a haircut, grocery shopped, got back in time for my 9:30 conference call, worked steadily, stopping only to let in a repairman who charged roughly double what we had budgeted (much pulling out of freshly-cut hair), picked up my little treasure at noon, fed him lunch and me breakfast, put in some laundry, bribed aforementioned treasure to stay quiet for my 3:00 teleconference, sent several emails, wrote a report, returned phone calls, and gave scant thought to dinner preparation.

Here is the bright side: 90 minutes I once spent commuting made for a nice evening watercolor painting session with my son (that was the bribe—he loves to paint). And the dishes did eventually get done. So, as an office worker on the outside looking in, I may have had some misconceptions about working from home, but I was right about one thing: it is so nice.

Related tags: corporate-culture, family, home, telecommuting

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deb owen said:
04.08.08 12:45 p.m.
a portion of my former commute time is now spent working out and getting back in shape. (i'm so very excited about that!) i really thought my house would be cleaner now that i work from home. but nope. it's not. (shhhh - don't tell anybody!) ;-) some people call it flexibility. i call it freedom. and it's a big reason i did this. (and am loving it!) all the best! deb
Renata said:
04.08.08 1:51 p.m.
The other day I scrambled to get work and a few can-no-longer-put-on-the-back-burner errands done, before picking-up my boys from school. We got home, they unpacked their lunch bags and did homework while I checked my emails. Then, homework and emails done, my son looked at me and said, "Hey, mom, wanna play cards?" 4:15 on a weekday, and I'm sitting down to play rummy 500 with my 9-year-old. THAT, I'd say, is all the validity I need to make my working from home work.
Stephanie said:
04.08.08 2:07 p.m.
Renata, I agree with you! Those are the things that make all the self-employment chaos worthwhile. Yesterday my 14-year-old son called from school. "I need you to come get me. I'm sick." What a blessing to be able to say, "I'll be there in 5 minutes," rather than having to go tell the boss that I need to pick up my sick child and having to listen to the usual, "Well, be sure you clock out! Didn't you just leave early the other day to pick up a sick child?!" Not having to ask permission is priceless! And for a child to know that they can come home sick instead of having to hear, "My boss won't let me leave right now," is great (not that I'd actually listen to my boss if he were to say that anyway...my kids come first!)
Quinisha Watkins said:
04.08.08 3:03 p.m.
All of you are so blessed to be able to still have family come first. That is what I admire in women like you. I also have first hand experience with being home with my(forever active)children. Ha Ha! They are why I try so hard to do what I have to do everyday of every minute. Even though you never know how you got this stain or that stain until someone point it out to you.Ha Ha1 Got to love them!!!
Stephanie said:
04.09.08 7:53 a.m.
One huge plus to working from home is obvious...hardly any gas expense! I was listening to a radio talk show yesterday and they were having a 2 day special discussion about how to try to convince your boss to let you work from home. They were outlining all the benefits to include in your proposal to the boss and the number one reason was because of the high expense of gas. I have always kept a vehicle even though I work from home because I live about 10 minutes from town and need a car to chauffer kids or run errands whatever but I have noticed that I can make a tank of gas last for at least 2-1/2 to 3 weeks now instead of having to fill up every 5 days or so. That is a great blessing!
Stephanie said:
04.09.08 1:33 p.m.
In taking a break from work today, I decided that since writing is such a great outlet for me, and because I love scrapbooking, I got wild and decided to create a blog. Could I have actually found the time to do that during a regular "in the office" kind of job? Nope! I just love this job flexibility! Oh, and if you want to get to know me a little better, check out my blog. I linked it to my name with this post.
Viviana said:
04.09.08 8 p.m.
Why, Ms. Stephanie...aren't you something! I love the new blog--it's a delight. I see from your list of sites that we have more than www.findingwhatmatters.com in common! There were a few others on your list that I enjoy. I miss Mayberry, too... :-)
Stephanie said:
04.10.08 7:33 a.m.
Thanks for the comment, Viviana. I had fun setting the blog up. I'm sure I'll think of more to add to it. I think it's great that we have some things in common! Blogs are a great way to get to know people in this cyber world that has taken the place of the Mayberry front porch gatherings. We get to meet people all over the world! I hope to read more of your writing so that I can get to know you, and I'm excited to get to know all these other wonderful ladies on this blog, as well. We all need a support system.
Stephanie said:
04.10.08 7:56 a.m.
Renata, thanks for leaving me a comment on my blog! You're very nice! :) And I can't wait to get to know all of you!
Quinisha Watkins said:
04.10.08 1:30 p.m.
Congrats on your new blog Stephanie! I'll go to the blog after I leave here. You are a go getter, you go girl!
jane said:
04.17.08 5:48 p.m.
Even when I worked for an employer I had a field based position and worked from a home office. You can say that I can no longer fathom working in a regular office. A couple of years ago when I had to go to a client site and work in their office (I had my own temporary cubicle), I felt like I was wigging out of my skin. I see working from a home-based office as my way to give back to the environment and society... less gas emissions, less road rage, etc.
Quinisha Watkins said:
04.18.08 11:14 a.m.
That last statement was as if you took the words right out of my mouth! You couldn't be more right Jane.
Philomena said:
04.24.08 10:38 a.m.
Do we have it made? We earn 1/2 to 2/3's of what our corp counterparts earn but the need we fill within our families is immeasurable. I would not be able to change my schedule at a moments notice to help Mom w/Alzheimer's or my dear Gregory (together over 12 yrs) disabled with severe medical issues. There would be no running to doc appts or trips to the Mayo Clinic. The stress is in finding work to fill the hours. My day starts at 2am. If I'm lucky enough to get hours, I work straight through till Noon. It's a constant juggle seven days a week. I'm always looking for new projects, as time is money for me. Would I re-enter the corp world full-time? No way! Part-time maybe, if offered health ins. I need the flexibility that has become important in my life. I find comfort in knowing I "made time" to be a significant part of their lives while they are still here. Now, if I just could get my siblings to understand that working from home does NOT mean I don't work. LOL
Viviana said:
04.24.08 1:09 p.m.
@Philomena, welcome! I must say, I wouldn't re-enter the corporate world either. Wow--your plate is so full. How do you make all of this happen? I supppse you have little choice, as a caretaker of not one, but two loved ones! I wonder...how could your sibs or anyone possibly not understand that you are not working? What type of telecommuting work do you do?
JoAnn said:
04.30.08 10:22 a.m.
I currently have a work at home job. My children are now grown - I wish the internet was around when they were young. Family is very important.
Philomena said:
05.01.08 8:41 a.m.
Hi All! Just a quick stop today as we're moving to be closer to Mom. LOL @ Viviana - I make "all this" happen because I've become a wiz at event/logistical planning. My motto is "If I can schedule it, I can accommodate it!" I have to laugh sometimes as my calendar closely resembles a spreadsheet. The telecommute work I do is call-center/customer service. Throughout my life I have mastered the art of exceeding customer expectations but sadly, it is such an under use of my skills and abilities. LOL - who knows, maybe there's a project management position waiting in the wings somewhere for me. Well gang, wish me luck with this move - they say we might get rain :( so I've got keep a pep in my step to beat the rain.
Viviana said:
05.01.08 11:03 a.m.
@Philomena--good to hear from you! Best of luck with the move. I'm thinking dry, sunny thoughts...
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